Book ‘This Is How Your Marriage Ends’ by Matthew Fray

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A Hopeful Approach to Saving Relationships
A thoughtful, down-to-earth, contemporary guide to help partners identify and address relationship-killing behavior patterns in their own lives. Good people can be bad at relationships. One night during his divorce, after one too many vodkas and a call with a phone-in-therapist who told him to “journal his feelings,” Matthew Fray started a blog. He needed to figure out how his ex-wife went from the eighteen-year-old college freshman who adored him to the angry woman who thought he was an asshole and left him. As he pieced together the story of his marriage and its end, Matthew began to realize a hard truth: even though he was a decent guy, he was a bad husband. As he shared raw, uncomfortable...
Publisher: HarperOne (March 22, 2022)  Pages: 304 pages  ISBN-10: 0063072254  ISBN-13: 978-0063072251  ASIN:‎ B097RPC1SD

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MATTHEW FRAY is a relationship coach, writer, and “the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce” (New York Times). His writing has been featured in HuffPostThe Sunday Times, the New York Times, and many more. His blog Must Be This Tall To Ride has a dedicated following and has reached millions of readers. “I got divorced in 2013 and thought I was going to die. And that’s maybe a little dramatic, but it’s true. I struggled with normal stuff like breathing. The way I felt every day of my life had been replaced by some suckier feeling. And everything I was certain of — everything I was counting on happening tomorrow and the next day and next year all went up in smoke. So I went to work on figuring out what happened. Questions like “What did I do to contribute to this?” or “What could I have done differently to prevent this?” were routinely on my mind. So I drank too much one night and started writing about it on the internet.”